My wife and I found this app after hearing about it on several podcasts. We decided to check it out and we haven’t regretted a moment since. We both agreed our sex life was really good and we were happy with where we were. This app and all the recourses within helped us expand our horizons and focus on so much more than just our sexy life. Pulling the spiritual, relational and physical aspects together and learning how we can love each other more in a more intimate manner has been such a wonderful experience for us and we can’t wait to see what else the app has in store. A HUGE A+ and we recommend this app to all couples looking to either spice up your sex life or even just have a space to share thoughts and have discussions on new topics. This is a great app!
We been married 30 years and rebuilding our marriage…
So I appreciate this app and the thought behind it. I’ve honestly used some of the daily challenges, but sadly most of the suggestions just don’t seem to be in sync with where “we are at” right now. Many of the “challenges” for the day just don’t line up with my wife’s primary love language… “acts of service”. Or some challenges don’t seem “age appropriate”. We are 59 and 60. I realize you can’t address every “love language”, because that is not how your app works right now. But maybe down the road instead of just asking your participants who use your app if they are male or female, maybe you could go a little deeper and add the filter of “what is her/his primary love language”. Obviously this means the person using this app would need to have the answer to that question first though. Perhaps it would be helpful to devise a way for a newcomer to figure out their significant other’s PLL first?? Then build their uniquely individualized version of this app around their answer?? Thanks for hearing me out! Don Basch
It would be helpful if you gave ideas on HOW to flirt. When I get that particular daily challenge, I feel so lost. I wish you’d give me some ideas on what to actually DO to flirt. For a marriage that needs some help, I really need some help! Also, I wish you gave other options for the daily challenge. Sometimes my daily challenge doesn’t fit my husband’s taste. I don’t want to lose my streak, but you don’t give me another option to choose from. Perhaps if you gave three options of challenges per day and said to pick one? I am, however, grateful for all the other helpful “how to” information you give, particularly on how to satisfy the woman. Talking about sex can be awkward and uncomfortable. You hate to tell your hubby that he’s not getting it right. (Why else do we women fake orgasms?!) So it’s nice to have specific information that we can read together. And then go try it! Thank you for that!
Before getting this app, my wife and I listened to the “get your marriage on” podcast, and they recommended this app. We were already having a good amount of intimacy prior to the podcast and the app, but since we’ve listened and used the app, our love life has been so much more connected and in-sync with each other. I had low expectations for the app, but have since been very impressed! My wife also has been impressed and uses it just as much as I do! Its fun to see her fantasies and its uplifting when she adds something she loves about me. The daily challenges are fun, sometimes they are easier than others (and we don’t always get them done) but the fact is, I find myself serving her more, and trying to do more for her. Give the app a try!
We absolutely love this app because it makes our marriage sticky in all the good ways. The daily challenges can be customized for long distance, just learning to like your spouse again and spicy hot. We have used all three at various times. There is so much trusted sex education that no one who just makes their way through all the features of the app can claim ignorance about human sexuality. Recently we started using the calendar to journal our dates and sexy time. In the past that was a sore spot for me and now we compete (almost) to see who will journal first. Thanks Dan and crew for developing such a cool app to help marriages thrive and stick together. P.S. So very worth it to upgrade to the lifetime subscription. You won’t regret it.
I tried to write out a review that accurately describes how helpful this app has been even in the few weeks I have been utilizing it in my relationship with my husband. It’s difficult. But here’s my attempt: It’s honestly an extremely helpful tool if you’re struggling to enjoy connecting intimately with your spouse and struggling to communicate about what exactly is not working for you or what may be lacking. Also the sex education has been excellent. There are things I have been learning that I never knew. Freebie: your brain is the most important sexual organ in your body. I found a lot of hope and reassurance in the articles I read and the one podcast I listened to. Realistically this app has helped me stop focusing so much on myself and my own pleasure and moved me toward enjoying my husband and remembering why I love him so much. In turn, we have had more intimacy and honestly have had more sex than we were having because the pressure is off and the intimacy and appreciation are on! The games are fun and you can adjust them for your comfort level. If you’re considering using this app, give it an honest try.
My hubby and I have been happily married for 23 years, AND we need a rejuvenation in our sex life. We didn’t know how to talk about it without getting defensive and we didn’t really know where to start, what to ask, and even what we’re missing, we just knew it was something. This app is really helping. We’ve only had it for a few days so I can’t say it’s done miracles in the bedroom yet, but it’s giving us hope and a place to start. I was surprised that my hubby, who is usually anti self-help foo foo stuff, is willing to engage with the app as much as he is. So try it. We can all hope for better communication, better understanding, and more of the “us” that years have slowly stripped away.
Such a great tool to bring intimacy and knowledge to your marriage
After living 6 years in a marriage controlled by my past sexual traumas I have thrown in the towel of being a victim of negative reactivity towards my husband when it comes to intimacy and have found such freedom and truth in this app while also reading Sheila Gregoire’s books like the Great Sex Rescue and the Good Girls Guide to Great Sex. This app has such a true and beautiful approach to our intimacy with our spouse and now that I have found healing for my trauma I am now utilizing this app to make sex fun and enjoyable again for us both. My husband is also on the app and he loves it just as much as much I do. Thank you so much for creating this safe space for couples!
Both men and women, husbands and wives, will get a lot from the resources and prompts on this app. It is a solid program. My husband and I love the daily challenges: wash the dishes, look in her eyes and tell her you love her, give a 1 minute foot massage, tell your partner something that has been weighing on your mind, leave a funny message on the toilet paper roll...they’re great! The main idea though, seems to be just remembering to remember your partner daily. We all get so wrapped up with work, kids, extracurricular stuff, etc, that sometimes we put our spouse on the backburner. It helps you to remember to remember them and to let them know “I’m thinking of you” in fun and creative ways.
My husband discovered your podcast. Then we got this app. We have both been listening to the podcast. We went ahead and upgraded on the app, and it is well worth it. Our sex life was definitely in a rut. We have been exploring a lot. I bought some lingerie by mentionables because of this app. We enjoy doing the games and have found out some things about ourselves of what we like etc, that we otherwise would not have discovered on our own. This app definitely pushes us and challenges us in a good way! It helps us to be vulnerable and yet trusting of our partner.
Bait-and-Switch; Gatekeeping; belittling to people not in their religion
Don’t get me wrong, there are good things about this app. I like that it’s not raunchy, and that it focuses on how important the actual relationship is in improving intimacy. At the beginning, I almost upgraded to the paid version. But I started noticing them gatekeeping in their articles…repeatedly… Over time I felt more and more alienated and downright disrespected. I sent them an email asking them to alter some of the language of their articles to make them more inclusive to non-Christians, and they responded enthusiastically thanking me… but instead of taking my advice they just published more articles implying even more strongly that Christian ideals were necessary in order for a relationship to be successful. I feel so disrespected and discriminated against.
This app is designed well and comprehensive. It covers all areas of intimacy including sex, but it’s not raunchy or vulgar (and not lame). Well done! We started doing the daily intimacy challenges, which are small and simple prompts of things to do for your spouse. These are mostly “out of the bedroom” stuff but they really got us thinking about each other more throughout the day, even in helping us look forward to time together in the bedroom 😁 I really like the bedroom games too, they’re a non-threatening way to have fun trying new things we like! Talk about spicing things up 😏 we like that we can personalize it to match our style and preferences! The date ideas part is also really helpful too. And the conversation topics. And the bucket list we share. And the Learn section. You can tell that the developers did their homework and care about helping couples with healthy sexuality and intimacy! If you plan on being married and in love for the long haul, you need this app!
I have loved this app! The daily challenges are really fun. It is a good reminder to think of your spouse and how you can love and pursue them on a daily basis. I would just say that the app itself could use a little work. I have experienced lag at times. Sometimes I’ll add something to one of the little notes, leave the app, and the notes disappear later. It also won’t let me change my profile photo. It’s little things that would help polish the experience. I think I would like to buy the membership, but the little hiccups make me hesitate as I don’t want to loose the notes I write down.
We've been married 17 years and gone to couples therapy off and on when we have needed it. We saw this app advertised on a website I subscribe to and we both synced up. We were both obsessed for the first month about taking the quizzes and playing the games. The conversation starters still had us talking for hours on our date nights and it wasn't about the kids! We both recommended this app to our therapists. And they love it too! They said they will share it with other couples.
Let’s face it... relationships take time, work and commitment. And the most important of our relationships - our marriage - is often the most challenging of all. This app designed with its classy & sexy, but tactful and encouraging tone, makes sure you’re “playing your best game” when it comes to wooing your spouse and keeping the “home fires burning!” Daily reminders, “play” ideas, discover conversation starters, education, couples diary, fantasy, chat feature... They haven’t left out anything. If you don’t check out this app, your marriage and love life is all that will suffer.
As a Christian couple, married 15 years with four young kids, my wife and I just discovered this app. We were in a season of struggling with all the demands on our time and attention to find the mental bandwidth and energy to be romantic. The conversation starters and questionnaires to understand each other, better, the games to play on date nights, links to nudity free shops to buy accessories are such a welcome resource. It will take us a long time to work our way through all of the tools this app has to offer.
In the first 2 days of using the app, we knew we wanted to upgrade it. Now we have been using it for months, and it is so much fun! It helped my fiancé get in the mood by playing some of the sexy games and the challenges help us keep our relationship fun and exciting. Now we even do our favorite challenges on a regular basis. As a younger couple, we love the learning side of the app. Thank you for an amazing app that is sexy, fun and Christian friendly. 10/10
This app is great for the most part but the daily challenges are not realistic. They are made for couples without children. We found that most daily challenges fell into these categories…would be perverse to do because we have kids at home and present, would actually cause a fight because they were blatantly inconsiderate or were just plain weird. Like one suggested the wife bring home fresh flowers for the dinner table. Seriously…like how is that sexy on any level to a man! This is otherwise a great app!
I think this app has a lot of great features BUT I wish the whole Christian edge was left out. Not every happily married couple is religious. Or believes in a god. I feel like it makes the app more exclusive. As well as the fact it leaves out the LGBT community in its customizations. I’m heterosexual but I feel like not being inclusive makes this app a little snooty and cliquish. So I’m torn about whether I really want to support it or not. I had bought the upgrade but the Christianity parts actually make me more uncomfortable than the “raunchy” apps that everyone refers to! Please consider all people who are in love in your future updates. Thanks!
The “Intimately Us” app has been an incredible blessing to me as a husband. I initially purchased this app with hopes to learn new ways of fanning the fires of passion in our almost twenty year old marriage. However, it has done so much more! It has opened my eyes to so many things that I hadn’t given time to consider before. Each day I learn more and more about myself as a husband, and I have come to realize that I play much more of a role (in relation to the intimate aspect of our marriage) than I had known before. I’m thankful to have had my eyes open to the fact that I am not the only one in this marriage and, once I choose to step back from selfishly striving to fulfill my own desires, I can reignit the passion I have for my wife and enjoy her even more! Thanks so much and may God bless!
This has been a God send!! While our marriage was strong and we have been with each other through good times and bad. Our intimate part of our relationship need an overhaul and that is what we found with this app. We started to communicate so much better both inside the bedroom and outside. I am also very pleased that the app goes deep, deeper than I ever expected but it is not raunchy. Very pleased!
This app has been really fun to help spice things up. We were looking for ways to change things up and get out of our rut. This app has really done the trick. The daily challenges help us connect with each other more often. We have had a lot of fun making a sex bucket list. The app has really helped us communicate more and explore broadening our comfort zone. It has been so fun!
It’s been really helpful for my husband and I as newly weds. We’ve had a lot of trouble with intimacy starting out and this app has been a game changer! It also helps us with “dating again”, giving us questions to ask each other or ideas/inspiration for doing little things for each other. We definitely plan on using this for the rest of our marriage.
We love this app!! We are so much more connected, and not just in the bedroom. The owners only and sole purpose is to better your relationship, and it shows. Offering a lot of different dates, games, conversation starters, even occasionally having free webinars on how to create intimacy and fun in your sex life! If your looking for something new in your relationship. Get this app!!!
My wife and I love this app a lot. It does need to be tweaked a bit though. Mostly in the mini game. It easily the most exciting part of the game but it needs to be turn based, no dice. The die just makes the game end fast where if you got to hit every square, there would be more activity. If I had some constructive feedback. I would make it one move, turn based game and have each tile have its own set of objectives.
We have been looking for something else to change things up and to help in times when my wife has low drive and this has been really great! Lots of information and ideas to try. We tried some of the games and just genuinely had a great evening together. Looking forward to more learning with this app!
My husband and I have always had a progressive sex life, trying new exciting tips and tricks in the bedroom and out. I enjoy this app because it allows both of us to express what we want from each other, love about each other and want to try together! So fun, so sexy and definitely bumped up the intimacy! Paired with the secret chat we have been having so much fun!
We’ve been married for almost 8 years now, and since having 3 children under the age of 6 we’ve become tired and adventure-less intimately. This app has helped create closeness, fun and laughter between my spouse and I. It’s also helped me step out of my comfort zone and be more assertive and confident. Thank you for creating an app geared towards Christian married couples!
Love it! As a wife of a pastor and mom to five kids, it is hard to find time and space for fun conversations with my husband. I love that it connects our two accounts and creates a private space for us to record memories of romantic times together, find fun ideas for dates, and learn more about our roles as husband and wife for a hot, passionate marriage. Content is high quality! I highly recommend this app for busy moms and their hubby!
Great app for couples, texts, conversations, education and lots of other games and activities to keep the spark alive and gain deeper understanding with improved communication that’s fun. App creator is also great at taking recommendations for improving app. Currently working on adding some improvements I mentioned. This is also great paired with the “between Us” app that’s encoded for privacy and fun for texting privately. No chance of an “ooops” text I sent my pastor
This is a fine app if you’re living a conservative hetero Christian couple looking to spice things up a bit. But if your queer, there’s nothing for you here. If you’re an atheist, there’s a LOT of religious messaging. If you’re cool with porn, prepare to feel judged. If you’re not a middle class guy married to a tradwife, expect a lot of the recommendations to not fit your lifestyle (“meet your husband at the door in lingerie when he gets home from work” or “pick your husband up after a business trip wearing nothing but a trenchcoat”).
I got this app to see if it would be helpful to recommend for my newlywed friend. But as I started exploring the app, I learned about things I didn’t know about in my 3 years of sex with my husband. The day I got this app, we tried making me squirt for the first time and it worked! 😍 I’m so impressed by how they explain everything in detail.
My wife and I just got married after 6 years dating and with the help this app provides, our love is stronger then ever. We enjoy the little challenges it provides to show each other the love and support, we both know we will need to make this last, from each other.
Someone I know and trust recommended the app and I was more than pleased in the way it makes marriage and intimacy more than just about sex but about developing a relationship and using intimacy with education geared toward appropriate and wholesome engagement in exploration. I am surprised at how much using the app has helped our marriage already 3 weeks into using it.
If you are looking for a Christian perspective on how to improve marital intimacy. This has been so much fun! And has been so informative and fun. This is not just a couples game app. It has so much more information that will help you in your marriage. Thanks for putting in the time to do it correctly and to continue to keep things up to date and new.
This has been an amazing app to bring my wife and I closer. Daily challenges are usually pretty easy, and even if you don’t get to complete it, it gets you thinking about your spouse. So much to learn in here too. The lifetime membership is definitely worth the price and they could charge more for how much the app has grown.
This app is great! Each day I look forward to the small but meaningful gesture my husband will do! And I also look forward to the fun things I get to do for him. It’s a great way to remind each spouse in a marriage to just think a little extra about your partner and spend a little extra time on them! ❤️
I have chronically avoided intimacy in the past. I have equates intimacy with only sex for 17 years of marriage...this app is inviting me to look inside of ME before looking out to any “Eve” in my garden of Eden. This app helps me to see that intimacy, like daily bread, needs to be hunted, gathered, and feasted on daily so that I choose to show up in more healthy ways for my marriage.
This app is absolutely incredible!! Not only has my sex life with my husband improved, but my marriage as well. The app is thoroughly interactive and customizable, with everything from daily challenges to games to play with your spouse. So grateful an app like this was created. My husband and I both give it a 10/10!😍
This app has been great for my wife and I. I also love that it isn’t crass, dirty, or pornographic, but very appropriate and also detailed enough to be informative. It also adds fun and great ideas to spice up your bedroom life with your spouse. I would definitely recommend it. Also love the podcasts. We (my wife and I) have the full version of the app.
There are so many fun ideas and challenges within this app to help spice up the bedroom. The creators are very creative with their ideas and encouraging to step out of your comfort zone with your spouse. They also help you become educated on techniques without being overly descriptive to make a newly wed (or old fart) blush reading all of the resources.
I’ve learned soooo much about sex from this app! It would be really cool if there were different color schemes (i was initially thinking to add a “manly” theme for the app and homescreen thumbnail, but just different colors so people can find the look they want.) i just feel it looks very feminine and some men don’t like that look in their phone haha
My fiancé told me about this app, and I was hesitant to try it. Little did I know, they had a learning tan that walks you through the ins and outs of many things I had been worried I didn’t know, but didn’t know how to learn without looking at porn. The Lord gave me this and it’s really helped our sex life!!
We have been married for 42 years. Great marriage but struggles with sexual issues at times. Being a Christian and finding a place to educate yourself on how to have a Christian sexy marriage. Truly has spiced our relationship up. Deeper more intimate. Wished I had found this years earlier. But it’s never touched late!!!
I’m so glad I found this app. I tried some other apps and they were made for people that have multiple sex partners. I have only had one partner and that is my beautiful wife. We have been happily married for 32 years and it gets better and better each year.
Every intimate relationship needs this app. For our first year of marriage, it has helped me remember to prioritize my connection with my spouse, and also helps me remember to keep the fun flame alive! Sometimes it’s fun to joke and just say “hey look babe - my app says to flirt with you!” It just reminds us both to connect, and I love that!
This app has helped and encouraged my marriage more than anything. It helps you understand the importance of taking time out to do the small things and also the big things. This app has definitely made my marriage light years better.
My wife and I have always enjoyed our strong marriage. Intimately Us is a welcome addition because it gives unique ideas and tips that help us show our appreciation for one another more regularly. Highly recommended to keep things fresh and show daily affection for your spouse!
We enjoy the fun suggestions for daily connection. We’ve also found the articles informative and games fun. This app has helped my husband and I connect in new ways after being married for 35 years!
My husband bought this app for us to prompt daily, deeper and more fun connecting between us. Just a few days in but his message to me yesterday brought happy tears to my eyes! Love him so much!! Grateful that God gave me him. This is a great way to spend moments during your day investing in your marriage.❤️
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